So I’ve been talking to this guy for a over a month now and it wasn’t until a few weeks ago when i started getting really anxious. I already deal with anxiety by itself, and sometimes I can get really sad and start talking down about myself. I’m 19, and currently in college rn, but I met him over my winter break. At first things were going great and he was responding a good amount of time. However, it seems like now that I’ve been at school it seems like he’s losing interest in me. We went from talking a lot to me only get at most five messages from him. When I noticed the changes I told him that if he was no longer interested in me then I would understand and he could tell me, and he confirmed that he still liked me. It’s been a little over a week now since I told him that if he wasn’t interested anymore then he could tell me, but it’s still the same situation again with the lack of communication. I’ve voiced my feelings about how I wish he would talk to me more and he said that he would try to change it- but so far it’s still the same shit. I feel stupid waiting by my phone everyday waiting for him to respond to me and it’s started messing with me mentally. I’ve been overly emotionally these past few weeks and I feel so shitty. I keep on trying to wonder what went wrong and why it seems like he no longer likes me. It’s almost as if I’m questioning my whole being, and I hate the fact that it’s came to this. I asked my friends if it’s normal for me to feel like this about a boy, being that I’m very inexperienced with men and he was also my first kiss. I just feel stupid having this guy be the center of attention for me, and I’m wondering if it’s best if I just cut ties with him and focus on my well being?