Hello Ladies

I need some advice. I've been married to my husband for a year and everything in our marriage is good between us.

However our first year of marriage has basically just had several bumps in the road that is out of our control.

Literally after few months we got married, my husband's mother unexpectedly passed away. Then few months after that his grandmother also passed. He was close to both of these women.

My husband frankly has gone into a depression and have started to drink beers daily to the point he isolate himself from me or falls asleep. My husband never get violent or anything. He just isolate himself from people and doesn't want to be bothered.

Our sex life is basically non existent 😑. I feel like an a** to even feel this in my emotions because I totally understand losing a love one. But I feel neglected.

I'm totally being a supportive wife to be there for him when he gets depressed or needs a shoulder to lean on. I totally understand my husband not feeling he is in the mood so to speak.

But it's getting to the point for me, I just feel neglected of my needs. It's literally close to a year....I have not had any sexual relations with him.

My husbsnd wasn't a type with a high sex drive. But I feel he is depressed and just lost interest.

I'm in the second year of my marriage feeling like I never really got to truly be a newlywed at all. These unexpected deaths has in a way taken over our marriage. I'm in my late 30s wanting to have my first baby...and I feel like time is wasting away for me.

A few days ago, he told me he is sorry for pushing me away and wants to have a baby. But I dont see any immediate changes yet. Still no sex 😑. So I'll see if there will be changes in next few weeks.

I don't know what to do I am in my wits end. Sexless for months.....I thought by now being married we would've been like bunnies.

Any advice what I can do to get my husband out this funk? I know there is no cut off time for some one to stop grieving , but at some point when do one seek help?