My husband is a chronic flip-flopper and is honestly the least consistent and dependable person I’ve ever known in my entire life. Twice now he’s quit his job on a whim (no discussion, he just comes home “honey I’m unemployed!) and sat on his ass jerking off all day for 2 months, while I scrambled to find a second job and take out a loan for my college tuition. He now can’t find another full-time job due to his spotty employment history, and works at a gas station. Next, he has a new “life goal” every week. They’re always insanely lofty and random. I’m not even exaggerating when I say every week. Last week he was going to “start opening up theme parks and make billions” (mind you, we are middle class), and now this week he wants to be a touring rock star “just like Steven Tyler” and do “loads of cocaine.” He also never pays his bills. He’ll get pissed off if I pay them for him, but if I don’t, THEY NEVER GET PAID. He’s in collections for a credit card now... Today, he pushed me just far enough. He said he wasn’t “so sure about this baby thing” (mind you we spent a fortune on fertility appointments and tests that HE WANTED) and that I should have an abortion. He also told me his reasoning: he’s pretty sure he’s going to have an affair at some point in our marriage, if we don’t get divorced, so he’s “weighing his options and deciding whether or not he wants me”. I want to file for divorce, I’m absolutely so sick of him and have 0 feelings for him anymore. I’m 5 weeks pregnant and I’m keeping the baby regardless, but I absolutely want a divorce. Can anyone offer me any tips? I know it’s crazy to do this while pregnant but I absolutely can’t handle being married to this delusional bastard anymore.