Hi wonderful girls, mommies or monmy to be :)

I wanted to share my situation because It’s getting so hard for me 😰

So me and my husband have been together for 7 years, and married around 4 years. We have been ok in general... just with our ups&downs (in different situations, as most of the couples have)

I got pregnant,now 12 weeks. Honestly I was very happy when I found out of my pregnancy (around 4-5weeks) BUT...

Let’s hope I’m wrong and judging but I don’t know... do you know those feeling that some people have , I mean... when you think smth is wrong even when other people tell you it’s right

Actually I think that my husband is not expecting this in a good way, I mean he seemed very happy when I told him but day by day since then he doesn’t seem happy. He looks so tired and annoyed because of my nausea,heartburn or morning sickness or all of those things that we have to deal on early pregnancy. And what makes me sad is that I don’t feel him as support for me nowadays, every time I complain for my situation he complains too that is so tired from work & stressed or acts like is bothering him or like ignoring and ends by saying that : how other women do?! OMG 😰 I told him once who cares what other do?! I am not married to them, how do you feel if I say : how their husbands do?!

He comes every day from work later than me, and one day I was moody (wellll maybe as usually these days) and he said : every day same face on you... are you gonna smile any day or what? Cuz I feel like I was better before coming home! Omg I felt like 💩

I cried and cried a lot and didn’t say anything bc I didn’t wanna fight 😢😢

And the problem is that our communication is not good this times, we don’t speak too much with each other (just work problems)

I work full time, come home cook, clean try to take care of him on this way, maybe I am not spoiling him like being sweet and warm and lovely but I can’t with this mood, and especially when he does nothing for me ( bc I feel it like that)

I have been 2 times to my OB and he couldn’t make it bc of work. The last time (2 weeks ago) he just picked me up and I showed him the picture & listened the baby’s heartbeat, he felt emotional and said next time we should go together.

I don’t know :(((( I feel so bad and especially for the baby that I am so stressed. I told him before that you seems like you didn’t want this pregnancy, and he just said : no you’re wrong , why do you have to say that.. maybe you’re the one that don’t feel ready?! So don’t you think he tries to oppose me for everything by protecting himself, or I am the one exaggerating ?! 😰😰

Has any of you felt this way? Sorry for being long and hope & wish all the best for all you ❤️