My bf and I have been together a year and I love him very much and I’m very happy with our emotional connection. However our sex life has gone from the spice and flames it used to be to the same old thing that works to get him off. And now I’m finding that I’m very attracted to other guys. And that I also get a lot of attention from men. I don’t want to leave my boyfriend and I don’t know how to tell him about this all without him being frustrated he’s a very emotional guy. He however wants to have a threesome which at first I was open to the idea of but now I feel like he’s just not as attracted to me. He often times goes soft during sex and can’t get it back unless we turn on porn. I don’t know what to do we’ve tried lots of things to spice up sex it just doesn’t have a connection there. HELP 😩

Edit:: We communicate with everything else just not this. It’s a rough topic for both of us. And I’m aware a threesome won’t fix the relationship hints me not feeling 100 about it.