So her and my fiance were married for 5 years and they share a child together. They have been divorced for over 3 years now. Our relationship is non existent. I tried to meet her several times and include her in birthday parties and special events for their son. We do not speak and we do not see each other at drop off or pick up( her choice). When she found out I was pregnant, she sent me a long text including the statement "I hope you lose the baby"😔

Fast forward several weeks and I actually miscarried twins. You guys..I have so much hate for this woman. If she died today I would not have a single ounce of remorse. My fiance says I am holding onto the hate and I should forgive her! We have not spoken since that conversation, and she is constantly belittling me to my fiance. She has not apologized. Am I wrong for the way I feel? I mean as a mother herself, how can you wish a loss on someone like that.