I’m low key angry at my husband 😂

When it comes to sex I’m always down. But he doesn’t always keep up. He’s just not as horny of a person. That’s fine, I understand.

But lately he is totally okay with me going down on him whenever he is horny and DOESN’T RETURN THE FAVOR. I’ve told him how rude that is and he gets very apologetic but doesn’t change. I don’t think he understands girls can get the same sensation of blue balls.

I’ve asked him if he doesn’t like going down on me, I know I have excellent hygiene and get regular check ups. He’s implied that he’s hesitant to go down on me because he’s not sure what he’s doing and doesn’t know what to do, it’s overwhelming. I can’t relate because I absolutely adore him and every part of his body. And especially going down on him. And honestly it’s a hell of a lot easier to please a guy than a woman.

We are each others’ first and only sexually. I’ve never gone down on a woman so I don’t know how to ease his nerves or give guidance. I’ve tried thinking of how to help him and I’ve tried guiding him during but he gets overwhelmed. If anyone has advice I’ll take it.