INTERRACIAL PROBLEM. How to get over being not what’s he’s used to
I love my boyfriend so much. I am black and Mexican and he is white. But sometimes, me and him have different approaches on certain things when it comes to like political beliefs and ethnic values. Like I said my boyfriend is white and I’m black and Mexican so we knew there’s a big percentage we’d have different opinions on things and that’s ok it’s makes our relationship stronger by being understanding. But, my boyfriend rarely ever finds women like me attractive. I hear, black women are pretty but I wouldn’t date a dark skin or I hear famous people he liked that are only white. I find out girls he liked strongly or dated were either white or Mexican but the Mexican ones he dated he said he only liked them because they looked white. His family saw pics of certain women he’d been with but apparently, IM THE FIRST GIRLFRIEND HES EVER BROUGHT AROUND. (We’re younger, 19 and 20) so I know he definitely has feelings and loves me and isn’t embarrassed or anything of me...but it just sucks that he doesn’t find women like me attractive EXCEPT ME. Idk it makes me sad, I’ll see pics of his exes and they always had like long hair that was down and their surfers with cute bodies and then there’s me who can’t swim for shit, mixed, and don’t really show my body off. Can anyone give me advice on how to get over my dumb insecurities like this ? I’ll post a pic of myself but not of him...just because some people on here get really upset over certain things and I don’t want anyone bashing my boyfriend...
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