So when my now husband and I were dating, he never proposed to me, it was just something we had talked about and decided. And he also didn’t buy my ring or band for the wedding.

So my problem is, is it wrong for me to hate (dont like using this word but don’t know a better way to describe this feeling) the way it happened?

I want to be able to tell our future children about this beautiful moment or to be able to look back and smile at the memory, but I can’t do that. 😓