Not sure to have a baby shower.

I’m not sure if this is the right group to post this in but I was wondering if any mothers have been through this and went along with it.

A little back story;

Im currently 17 weeks and 4 days pregnant. We lost our first the same year at around 6 weeks, I know it was early but it still took a while for me to not get over, but accept what had happened.

Now friends and family are already asking me if I’ll be having a baby shower which I responded that I wasn’t sure. Why? Because I had all these worries that what if we celebrated this birth to prematurely and baby didn’t make it? How would I cope if I went along with the shower and later the birth didn’t end up going well what would I do with the gifts? I know I should have faith and hope that nothing bad will happen but I can’t help it.

So my question is has any of you had a previous loss, fell successfully pregnant later and decided to have a baby shower? Or thought about not having one?