No sex for 9 months???!?!?!?

Ma

I have a cerclage placed for my current pregnancy. I am not allowed sex or orgasms (masturbation) until I give birth. Counting postpartum 6 weeks it’s going to be 9 months before I have sex again. I’m 14 weeks pregnant. Please help me how will I survive 😭😭😭😭😭😭