Sex doesnt feel good?

Question

So sometimes sex doesnt feel good. Like my bf is perfectly normal and all when it comes to it. But for some reason is doesnt feel good but yet sometimes it does feel good and sometimes it doesnt. although i want to do it more cause i am kinda new to sex but still, i just feel like what people tell me about how GREAT it feels im some how not able to get the same pleasure.

Also.. I did have a relationship with a guy who emotionally controlled me and raped me once. I ended it about a year ago. Could it be something to do with the Psychological impact it had on me??

Answer

Yes it could be a psychological thing. A lot of times sex won't be as enjoyable if you're tense, stressed, or anxious. This has caused me problems in the past. 
I just recommend lots of foreplay as well as telling your partner when something doesn't feel good. You can try something different or take a break. Knowing that your needs are important to theM too, it might help you relax and enjoy it

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It does take time yes to get the pleasure of sex. I was raped two months ago and I have yet to find pleasure in sex again, I don't even like being touched. Give it time is what my councilor has told me... good luck and I'm sorry you had to go through this.

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You're new to it. It didn't feel good for me either when I first started having sex. A woman's body is meant to learn how to orgasm, and the vagina needs a little time to get used to/ comfortable with the stretching.. Give it time (: maybe buy some toys or lube or something

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