So my boyfriend and I have been off and on for about a year and a half. The two times we broke up it was for about a week tops. The first time I left him it was super messy because he lived with me and I basically kicked him out. The reason being the way he was talking about me and my family. We got back together and things were okay for a while. But he continued to try to make me feel bad for what happened and still does. The second time I left him was for personal reasons (my mom was about to pass away and I felt that being alone would have been better) this guy is super manipulative and convinced me that I should go back to him. So I did. Things were okay again for a while but of course they got bad again. Lately things have gotten super bad.. for no reason he’s yelled at me, called me names, tried to make me feel guilty for his own problems. And when I say no reason I literally mean no reason. And then he will act like it never happened right after that. I’ve been staying with him and his family this past month because my mom passed away, and staying at home is too hard for me. Last night I needed to get away. I went to a friends but before I could leave he was trying to make me stay. He said I would be “crossing a boundary” if I left. I talked to my cousin on the phone last night about the situation because I’ve talked to her before about it, and she told me that nobody in my family likes him. And that he had the nerve to ask my cousin if he could marry me, at my mothers funeral because “she’s not here to ask.” That hit a nerve for my family.. okay here’s where I need advice. I always have went back to him. He knows what to say and do to make me come back. What advice can you ladies give me to stay away? Everyone’s telling me to leave him. I still love him but it’s so hard for some reason.