Sex drive @ 22

I pretty much fucked my teenage years away. I lost my virginity @ 13 to my ex and we used to fuck A LOT.. everywhere anytime multiple times a day. Years later (9) we are back together and I barely want to have sex. Like if we don’t have it at all it’s totally fine to me... when I get horny I’d prefer him to eat my pussy or I help him nut but other than that I don’t really want to fuck him. I feel like our sex is burnt out even though we’ve gotten a lot nastier. Do I break up with him over sexual dissatisfaction? Cause I honestly don’t know what he could do to change how I feel