3 kids under 2 the twins will be two in March and the baby just turned two months.

We have a fire place and last April when the twins start walking better we blocked off fire place with the couch to make sure the kids didn’t get hurt since it’s huge and brick so today he announces he would have to have a fire. I said fine but if he’s moving the couch she has to vacuum under and clean what ever has fallen behind it since April cause it’s too big and heavy for me to move and I’ve been asking him for months to move so I can clean we have two toddlers who knows what back there

He said no that he wasn’t cleaning up my mess under/ behind the couch that the children are my responsibility during the day so what ever they do is my responsibility to clean and keep clean I said that he was crazy and I’m not cleaning so no fire today then. He goes I’ll move it and them move it back and what ever is under/behind that he would just be putting back where it was instead of killing in him in front of the children I calmly grab my pumping bag and purse told the kids I was going shopping and left

He can be the responsibility one today I have over 50oz of breast milk frozen for the little one I have never left him with all 3 before hell I never left him alone with the twins till they were 6 months old . We were both teachers at the same high school I was a department head so I actually had more work then he did so I know what he does everyday he’s does the bare minimum so that fact that he “works” I don’t care anymore seriously don’t start shit with me