Sorry I accidentally deleted it .

Not sure is this is the right group for this but I am really considering leaving him over this. Because it's like my opinion doesn't matter at all just what he wants.

But my husband's dad is buying a double. He will get one side and me my husband and are almost 4 month old will get the other. We will only have to pay 350 a month because his dad will cover the rest .

Well the down fall is we have a almost 4 month old son and no jobs. Right now my parents are helping us. My husband had a job when he was born but got fired due to getting a concussion and not being able to go in to work. He did get a small sales representative job making calls over the phone. He would get 15 for every appointment he made and the if the people go. Well he did it for 2 days and has not done it for 3 weeks. I have been putting in apps like crazy. I hate having to rely on my parents being an adult. I have to work off the money ofcourse. Like take care of the chickens and stuff like that kinda like a farm hand /maid.

Anyways my husband thinks it is a good Idea to move in to this place. And have no money for food or anything. I mean we live in a bedroom right now so we dont have much. He has only put in maybe 2 apps since he got fired. I have so many job apps on my phone have put in so many apps and have still not got a call back.

Thankfully his brother in law told his dad about a few places hiring so I am hoping one of us can get on but the move is in the next week or two I have been stressing so hard about this and he acts like it don't affect him. When I bring up food he just says we will go to food pantries hit as many as we can in one day.

Might I add the house they want to get has no heat. And it's a 3 bedroom on are side .so big house no heat and a baby. They think one heater will do the job. We will have to hide in one room and have it running 24/7 as high as it will go.

Am I overreacting? Like would you go through with this? No job no money no food.

I mean the rent is a good deal dont get me wrong and his dad gave him 3-6 months to get a job. But I dont see him getting one. He would rather play on his xbox then put in apps.He has had 7or 8 jobs in the last 3 years

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I also have a few job interviews so wish me luck.

So I have no choice but to move I didn't want to but my parents decided that my meth addicted half brother. Is more important

I say it that way because it's TRUE.

My parents both agreed that if he was on drugs he would not be around because of my son being here.

they are even letting him bring strangers in to the house. And they have a rule of you have to meet the whole family and we have to know you for a while. And now all of that is out of the window. We have tried to help my brother but he wont take any help. My sons safety is more important to me.

He called CPS on his girlfriend for being on meth and they both failed for meth . So the kids got taken away. But what's sad is he didn't do it because she was on drugs he did it because she left him and cheated on him. He wanted things to go back the way they were before they had kids and she didn't want him at all after that.

He is trying to get cps to come to my parents house now. Which puts my child in danger because my parents are letting him stay here and letting him bring strangers in to the house.

I have still not told my dad about next month. But they dont want us to move out but they are not thinking of my sons safety or anyones safety for that matter.