my dad is getting re-married in may, and his fiance is insisting on getting bridesmaids dresses TODAY while i’m 33 weeks pregnant. She told me to send her my measurements and I told her that I’m obviously not going to be this big in may, so I told her my dress size before I was pregnant and to just go up one or two sizes just in case, and if anything i can get it altered when the time comes around if that is even too big still. but she refuses to do that, and is literally making me measure my swollen breasts, my pregnant belly, and my hips. Obviously I know I can still get it altered even if it comes out to be huge on me with my pregnancy measurements. but i think i’m so mad because she literally doesn’t think i’m going to lose any weight by then and i’ll still be a huge pregnant whale or something. so frustrated