Okay so my has done and said alot of things that has made me insecure for example

1.Didn’t really support me when my friend said something to me that hurt my feelings he knew what it was the next day she texts him what I said to her which was “I don’t wanna talk” he texts her yikes acting like he doesn’t know what it was about calls her to check if she was okay but couldn’t call me when he knew I was crying for hours the night before.

2.Takes off a girls bra the day before our anniversary at her party and then canceled bc he was tired from the party (he said no at first but she pushed him to do but still no excuse)

3.Talks about how this girl we got to school is hot and wants to have a threesome with,I talk to him about it he said it was a joke but I asked why he would say it and he said idk, then the next day like a photo of her where she’s covering her nips with her hands and she is clearly naked.

There are others but you get the picture

I’ve talked to him about it and after the bra thing I was about to break up with him bc I’ve been so drained and insecure bc of him but I have him a second chance bc I could see how she forced him I to it but trust me he did not get off the hook.

But like I’m getting really tired of getting upset about what he does and say and having to have these talks all the time.

I’m not gonna break up with him bc I know he loves me but I really need him to change bc he does make me so happy but he says this stuff sometimes and I just get so unhappy and insecure.

Like he said he’s gonna change but he’s said it so many other times that I just don’t know what to do

Edit:

Okay to people who say he doesn’t like me or love me trust me he does and we’ve had a conversation about all this and he does think there is something wrong with him bc he keeps doing it again, I just wanna know if he is subconsciously trying to make me jealous or if he’s just a oblivious dick bc trust me that boy is oblivious.Also I think he is extremely insecure about himself.Btw I don’t forgive him for any of the things he’s done and I do not think it is right.Also he does support me made that unclear.