Have you ever been in a relationship where your SO put weight on or let themselves go? Did it affect your relationship?

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Let me know your experience, what did you do?

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I haven’t had it happen but I would be concerned just health wise.  I have a lot of anxiety so I’d like my partner to stay in good shape so I don’t need to worry about his health

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Yeah my SO put on like 20 pounds but he still looks good as hell

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Depends how much he let himself go. If it’s to a point where it’s affecting his health, then yea I’d bring it up but other than that I wouldn’t care

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My ex went from 170 to 220 while we were together. It never really bothered me and I didn’t notice, even with 100 pound weight difference between us!! When he decided to lose weight I helped him get down to 190, but I always reassured him that I didn’t care.

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When we first started dating we were both so skinny. He was like 150 and athletic and in great shape and now 8 years later he’s rocking the dad bod which I love. He’s like 200. It’s a lot but it doesn’t both me one bit. I’ve gained weight after having our son. And so we work out together and I try to cook healthy for us. He’s still so handsome and such an amazing partner and dad. He’s just as attractive to me if not more now.

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Yes, my husband and I both gained weight once we got married. He went from 220 and is now close to 310. I went from 110 up to 149 at my highest but it didnt affect our relationship. He is still extremely attractive to me. I love his body just as much as I used to. I really dont even notice how much he has gained. He says I was too skinny in the beginning and now I look healthier. Healthy is our goal tho. Im pregnant so I told him when I make it to 160-170, he should try to be like 290 or 280 and he liked the idea. I gain healthy pregnancy weight and he loses some.

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They let themselves go as in they wouldn’t look into higher education at all. I wasn’t going to date a fast food gumbo chef for the rest of my life. Also started drinking nearly every single day. Wasn’t going to date an alcoholic either.

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If he’s still taking care of me, I don’t really care

Have you ever been in a relationship where your SO put weight on or let themselves go? Did it affect your relationship?

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