Hey girls need some advice, I met a guy we have been dating for at least 6/7 months now and I think I want to have sex with him. The only thing is I’m a virgin and when we have tried previously I tense up or get super nervous. Also, his penis is on the larger size and I’m tight (tight that when I’m getting fingered, one finger hurts!!)

I’m confused about everything like should I go on birth control, what it hurts A LOT, what if I don’t like it! I need help y’all!

Advice? ✨