Long story, bare with me. My parents are both cancer survivors. Last year was tough for the family: Mom with chemo, Dad with radiation. My cousin came to visit and stayed with my family for a few days. Great, family getting together and helping out through tough times. Wrong!!! come to find out, after she left there was money missing, about $200 dollars, a jar of coins and an old iPhone they had laying around. My parents have their suspicions it was her who took it. All while both parents were battling cancer. Fast forward to today, she needs a place to stay so my parents being the kind hearted people they are took her in. They feel sorry for her and want to help her out. I don’t live with them so I voiced my opinion and left it at that. Today I went to visit my parents and they expect me to talk to her and be kind to her. (I don’t get why they want me to do so?!) I seriously don’t see her as family, who steals from family when they are ill. I can’t, it’s not in me to acknowledge her or even look at her. My parents were so mad, disappointed upset (to the verge of tears) because I didn’t say bye to her. I guess I’m just wondering if I’m being petty and childish with this? I seriously don’t want anything to do with her but can’t avoid my parents just because she’s there? What do I do?