I have been in a relationship for 4 years this March. Me and my boyfriend haven’t been on a holiday away together, we don’t live together and we only see each other on the weekend. We live about 20 minutes away from each other I live with my friend and he still lives at home. We are both 26 this year and I feel like everyone around me has their lives together and moving forward and we are just in the same place we were when we first started dating and there is no progression. How long did it take for you to go on holidays with your partner? Move in together? Get engaged and have kids. They are just things I’m starting to really think about now and maybe I just need to find someone who wants the same things.