Helloo, want to hear some opinions!!

Me and my BF are super stressed about marriage.

We know we want to be together. BUT

But he is in the military and in 1y or so will be relocating. If we get married he stays an extra year and we get to live together.

We talked about it.

The idea of "having to get married" just so we can be together and having a "deadline" is so stressful.

We live pretty far from each other and the only way we could live together is signing all the papers.

The base is so far from work .... !

and I freaking hate that train ride to work!

I want to live together but the train ride kills me slowly every time I go directly from his place to the office.

He says I could quit and freelance if I wanted to, technically don't even need to work too survive if we get married.

I do want to start freelancing but just got this new job,

I don't know if I DONT WANT TO or if IM JUST SCARED hahaha help