Bleeding after sex. Not always but more recently.

Let me start by saying that this all began in October and October specifically was a very stressful month for my husband and i as well as his family.

So around the 6th of october we had went out of town to our family members home. My husband and i ended up having sex and everything was fine. The next morning i noticed blood in my panties (TMI SORRY).. so i chalked it up to the fact that my husbands aunt was on her cycle and my body was trying to sync with hers. So a few days goes by but the bleeding doesnt stop. It started red then turned brown then back to pinkish red. This bleeding session lasted 30+ days. So october 7th to november 11th i think. So that was weird but i figured well maybe its because i havent had a period in months. Ok cool. Well november comes and goes then it hits december, we had sex again ( yes we had sex in november) the next day i bleed again but this time its only 2 days. So now im getting worried right. Only when we've had sex so far and this is really abnormal for me. So i go to the hospital and they say oh it must be your cycyle ( ya right buddy, but OK). so that episode stops and boom the other day we had sex and tadaaaaa the bleeding has been so kind as to make its appearance

So i was instantly pissed. I started this month around the 4th and bled for about 8 days. Not like a cycle though but way lighter. Then about a week ago we had sex again (trying to get back on track here) and bam here it is AGAIN!!!! So at this point im over it. Worried, pissed, horny and just OVER IT.

So i go to the hospital once more. After there very "extensive" pelvic exam i'm left with "everything looks normal here", no tears or sores soooo we advise seeing an OBGYN. well see some of us dont have insurance or money for copays

Soooo, thats not gonna happen right now, but thanks for the suggestion doc!

So here i am bleeding, pissed and Horney and idk wtf is going on...

So basically i need opinions. From anyone who may be dealing with this horrible fuckery too. Any ideas or has anyone else dealt with this or something similar??

I just needed to rant i guess along with asking for help ya know?

Thanks in advance y'all :)