Does anyone’s man get performance anxiety?

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And if so, how do you work past it?

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Thank you all for your input. We’ve been trying to conceive for past 3 months and I’ll be 37 next month and my mom and grandma went into premenopaus at 35. But sex is great prior to us talking about ttc and now the past couple months every time is fertile week he can’t stay hard for long, so sorry if this is TMI but I end up just telling him to watch porn and when he’s almost there to stick it in.... but it’s starting to get to my self esteem because these woman can do it for him and I can’t :(

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I’m finding it’s best to not put too much emphasis (to him) on those days we really need to bd. It’s too much pressure on everyone and makes it feel like a chore.

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I learned the hard way to never never ever let him know when its O time! It's very frustrating and I got resentful but I think that was because ttc is just hard and makes you crazy lol

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Have him get some Viagra for days he struggles.

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We have issues as well.. it’s sucks it’s the stress.. just have fun and don’t tell him when your window is..I’m almost 40 and my family all had hysterectomies around now..ughhh I hear you..

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Going through something similar every since ttc it's been difficult for us as well. My husband wants a baby really bad but I do think the pressure of having to perform on certain days gets to him. We've never had this issue before and we've been married for 12 years. We go to the doctor on Wednesday just to make sure its nothing serious.

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If you're trying to get pregnant, you have to have sex on certain days, even if he isn't feeling it. I would have him log into this app on his phone so that he knows in advance the days you're ovulating and can mentally prepare before you even start your cycle. I've noticed that intimacy before having sex, like all day long, kissing, random dancing, hugging, looking into each other's eyes makes us super excited for sex time that night! ❤️ If you aren't trying to conceive and it's a general question, my advice would be to stop forcing the issue and let him come to you. Sometimes guys need to build up a little more desire over a couple of days. Oh, also, don't have sex a couple days leading up to ovulation if you're TTC. Make him feel like he's going to explode!

Does anyone’s man get performance anxiety?

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