Hey guys

I need help to decide if should stay in my relationship.

My girlfriend is not responsive to my needs at all, I don't feel loved enough

And every time I say it to her, she says that she is not romantic like me, and I shouldn't expect her to respond to my insecurities, I should deal with them myself and I want a fairytale and that's not real life

Well she has said these things about my insecurities so much that now I'm starting to believe that she is right

These are my problems not hers

Well what should I do?

Am I right that I want to feel loved? And I want her to consider my insecurities (that she has caused)

Am I the problem?

Deep down I know I am but what should I do? Can I make it work?

Thank you, really