So my boyfriend and I just started dating like a month ago, and we have already done oral sex. We both want to wait a while before we have sex to make sure what we have is real, but yesterday when we were together and we got really close to having sex. We ended up just doing oral but I couldn’t help but want sex so bad. How long do you think I should wait? We have a lot of trust already and we were best friends first, but is that enough for that step?