Okay, so about a month and a half ago this lady messaged my Fiancé stating she needed to talk to him because she could be his niece. This girls mom also reached out to him minutes apart stating that her daughter was going to message him.

After long conversations or trying to figure this huge puzzle out. We spend days and days trying to figure out if this was a real thing. That this girl could be his late brothers daughter. This girl is asking my fiancé to take a paternity test to see if she has the DNA of his brother. This girl and my fiancé had multiple phone conversations. Also with the mom, too. Multiple text communications too.

She started sending him photos of her kids, her and her and her husband. She then went through both his Facebook profile photos and mine and was making photo collages trying to say she looks like my fiancé (my fiancé and his late brother looked alike) I seriously thought that was creepy.

Eventually right around Christmas. We went over to the In-laws and had a four hour conversation again trying to see if this story made any sense. (His mom and I believe the story doesn’t make sense and things aren’t fitting into the story). We finally came to the conclusion that we were going to wait until after 2/2/19 to discuss having any more conversations about this since I wanted to be focused on our wedding.

(I finally had to be to the point. We had a short engagement and it’s been nothing but bad news, and just a shitty time. I was completely being selfish that the last month being engaged I wanted to focus on us and planning our wedding.) it’s not like my wedding is a year away.

So my fiancé called her and told her that our family needed to focus on this happy time in our lives and when we get back from our trip we can bring this conversation up again.

So about 10 days later this girl sends 10 photos of her pregnancy gender reveal. (A girl we have no clue who she is!!) I really thought this was uncomfortable being we just said we didn’t want communication and needed to focus on us.

Then tonight she sends another long text relating to a trip to CA she just took and again about her baby.

At this point I’m just so frustrated, why is she not respecting our wishes of wanting to focus on our lives right now and being that we’re getting married in 4 days I don’t have time for this girl. I mean maybe I’ll feel different once there is proof she’s family but until then she’s a stranger that my family has gone on living having no clue about for 28 years... don’t get me wrong I think it would be cool to find out we have more family but seriously she’s just anyone right now.

My fiancé gets mad at me when I get upset that she’s messaging him because I really get mad that she can’t leave us alone.

Am I asking for too much? I really don’t think I am being that this time is really about us. Especially this late in the game.