My boyfriend of 8 years knows I’m pregnant by 11 weeks, he’s never in the house he’s always out, always comes home late, shows no love or effection, he talks to me like shit, treats me like shit, his friends come first, should I leave him!?

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Maybe ask him what is going on?? Has he done this during the entire 8 years together? If he has, maybe you should have been using protection.
Maybe he is just scared because his life is going to change with a baby on the way.  Communication is very important, talk to him.

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I would say patience is a virtue.
I add my vote to the previous comment, he might just be scared or he’s feeling like he is going to lose his freedom. My husband did the same thing and fighting with him only kept driving us apart.
I just found out he felt scared and didn’t feel like being tied down. I explained my stance, tried to only spend fun time for a week I took off of work and then just tried not to nag him.
He actually came back saying he missed me and was in a better mood.
I’m not saying this for sure would work for you but it just might. What actually helps is understanding your own feelings and trying to point out when this behaviour started out. Most importantly don’t blame yourself, what you are doing is beautiful, you are carrying a baby and should be healthy both physically and emotionally. You might be feeling down. Try asking yourself these questions: 
Have you discussed pregnancy before with him? 
Did both of you want this? 
Did he make any kind of commitment towards you and/or this pregnancy? 
Was it a planned pregnancy? 
Did you calmly tell him how you feel (you need to pick a good time, both of you should be willing to listen, don’t force it or you won’t like the results)
And you know you both might be feeling confused.... sometimes what seems like a real issue is just forgotten over time.
I understand you feel afraid but just try to hangout with friends and/or family members. Moreover, try to find a hobby, read a book or whatever just keep busy. If you need real help seek the doctor’s advice and let him know what you need, whatever you do, never beg for his attention, you are better than that!

My boyfriend of 8 years knows I’m pregnant by 11 weeks, he’s never in the house he’s always out, always comes home late, shows no love or effection, he talks to me like shit, treats me like shit, his friends come first, should I leave him!?

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