Are they allowed to write in your mail? I’m annoyed because the woman who delivers the mail in my apartment complex literally circles my last name & writes question marks on it. I chose to hyphenate my last name when I married my husband but whenever I do get mail with only my maiden name she circles it and writes questions marks..... 😑 yet she doesn’t write question marks on my husbands last name. It’s happened a few times before and I let it slide but it’s clear that I live here & she still puts in the mailbox.