I know that it's only our first month TTC but just got AF. It's been a weird cycle so I was hoping for that bfp. Had what I thought was IB, never spot at all mid cycle. Then, I started spotting 5 days early. Thought I may have miscalculated on O. Well, I was wrong. AF just started early. Came in full force yesterday on cd28. I normally start around 31 days :(

Realistically, one month is nothing. But, I just found out today that my younger cousin is expecting her 2nd in October. So, she conceived this last month. They haven't even been trying either. I'm happy for her but now I understand how you ladies feel seeing others around you get pregnant when you are hoping for your bfp.

My dad and his gf are also expecting...that's an entirely different story that is sort of complicated. But, she was pregnant before we started TTC so it doesn't bother me as much somehow.

Just needed to come on here an vent a bit. Our families don't know we are TTC because they already bug us enough about having kids as it is. Don't want the added pressure. I just needed to put it out there to women who know how I feel.

Hoping for baby dust for all!