Okay I didn't have a cycle for over a year and all of a sudden in October I got one which was heavy and cramping so bad I was doubled over normal cycle in November and December the only time I really ever been with a man in the last 17 years has been to try to get pregnant I would much rather prefer being with a female and was married to a female well now I didn't get a cycle in January I did one pregnancy test after my cycle was due and it was negative I went 4 days past my cycle due date and I bled maybe a small amount and then no more but here's the kicker I'm 43 years old so this would be a first pregnancy baby whatever you want on look at it there's only been two guys that I've tried to get me pregnant since I started my cycle up again I figured I'd give it one last go around if it happened it happened any thoughts