So I was diagnosed with Lupus in 2012 and I have been in remission for 4 years about now.

I am in my second month of pregnancy and am not experiencing any flare ups of my SLE.

My mother is requesting that I "remind" my OB of my Lupus diagnosis, however I'm worried he will mark me at high risk even though I'm not experiencing any issues.

My mother is really against me having a home birth so I'm 99% the goal is to have me put into the High Risk category to stop me from birthing out of the hospital.

Do you feel like I should remind my doc?