Can’t get wet

I’ve had this problem with my last partner and now my current one! Even though I want to have sex and I am in the mood no matter what I can’t get wet! It’s making me really nervous as I don’t want him thinking it’s him. Anyone know why this could be ? Also I have never had a guy make me cum, no matter how much fun I’ve had. Could it be something to do with me? Or have I just not found the right guy who can do it! Ahh help!!!

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G.

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Clitoral stimulation is a must. Try lube worst case.

Me

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Are you drinking enough water? I’m usually always wet but have had issues lately drying up in the middle of sex and I started drinking more water and the problem went away.

B

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Use lube. It’s not a big deal, and it’s not even a physical “problem” per se. Read Emily Nagosk’s book Come As You Are for more info. Basically, a woman can be wet and not aroused just like she can be aroused by not wet. If you are aroused and not wet, then use lube.

du

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Lube helps me get excited faster an just helps in general

JK

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Are you in birth control? One birth control made me super dry... no matter what even with lube... I would talk with your obgyn, she may be able to to some tests to see about hormonal level and also look up the symptoms of your birth control if you are on any. Also other medications you are on could impact that too

As

Ashley • Jan 30, 2019
Yes this too! The Nuva Ring made me dry.

As

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I had this issue with my last bf. Try making out for a little bit and then some foreplay. It could all be mental and you’re putting pressure on yourself thinking you have to orgasm. Without clitoral stimulation you probably won’t orgasm. Try that and try to relax and have fun 😊

le

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I have the same issue. Going to the doctor about it