I’m 16 + 2 and my husband is refusing to let us get any baby essentials. All we have is one pack of diapers and a few onsies . Last night we found a crib on clearance for $70 and he told me that I need to wait until my baby shower before we get most things. I’m not even sure I will have a shower, none of my family lives close and his are over 2 hours away. I told him even if I do have a shower it will be a small one and not to plan on getting any big items from it and he got all pissy about it. I’m literally going crazy not being able to even plan on getting some of the basics. Last night and today I’ve had full on panic crying attacks thinking about not getting anything until I’m 8 months 😭