I have to start applying for colleges soon but I want to be with my boyfriend in the military he is in Oklahoma and I am in Virginia and I want to go to college there to be with him but there are also really good colleges here but the only way I will be able to is if we get married I’ll be 18 and he will be 20 next year when i graduate highschool and that’s when he wants to get married. I don’t know if I should go to college here and wait another 4 years to be with him or go to college there on base and be with him and graduate in 2 years. What should I do???