Please I need to know 😭😭

Ok so my boyfriend and I were introduced to tiktok it’s caused a lot of problems he’s constantly on it and women blowup his phone , I have people have became my friends as well but majority of them are all women except for maybe three or four out of 300 hundred well we have a huge bash we or he and his new guy friends are throwing it’s going viral it’s at my boyfriends property well I thought to message everyone copy paste each profile and say hey bash is in so and so town and beer good people messaged me for details as him and his friends are telling everyone to message me sooo but today I woke up and thought hmmm we’re all about positivity on tiktok that I would put a quote of the day that said. Don’t be moody when you can shake that booty , he’s sick this mor morning wanted me to grab something for him so I left my phone and as I come back in he’s calling me a hoe and I’m messaging guys and I should only message girls ! I said I cope /paste it to everyone . Should I have not done that ?? Am I really a hoe and cheater for doing so? I’m at our neighbors staying the night because I’m not allowed there please please tell me if I’m wrong ?