I met this guy on tinder. We established that we both wanted a relationship. We’ve been talking for about a month now and we’ve made lots of short term and long term plans, but since I’m in college, we have to wait on our first date.

Because of this distance, our only way to keep this going is through text. He doesn’t like FaceTiming (we did once) but we talk everyday.

Our text communication has slowly decreased. We went from talking nonstop about everything to, recently, him responding hours later and not seeming interested with dry responses. The only way I can get him the least bit interested is the get dry myself or communicate with him, which has worked for us.

We’ve agreed to be mutually exclusive

But I guess my question is: should I keep trying with him? I’m thinking of taking a step back and becoming less available to let him miss me but idk