Has anyone kinda freaked out before or during intimacy because a past relationship messed with your psych. In my last realtionship the last time we had sex i totally had a mental brake down and freaked and ran, and now im scared to be intimate with anyone. This new guy i like we kissed but i got weird and immediately distanced myself from him and now he's beating himself up about making me feel uncomfortable. I dont want to put the blame on anyone but i dont know why i keep getting in my own head.