Am I out for this month :(

Brooklynn • happily married, Rainbow Baby 🌈 born November 08,2019. 👼🏻 RIP Angel Baby

This is our first month trying since our miscarriage and I am confused. So in September when we ended up pregnant I ovulated on September 30 confirmed with OPK on 11 DPO I got a faint positive and it continued to get darker. With that cycle I knew I ended up ovulating a whole week later then predicted which helped with dating since they said I was a week earlier then they thought based on my period but I knew when I ovulated so that helped. So skip forward to December I had to have a dnc due to baby had no heart beat at 10 wks. And I waited till we had a cycle on January 6th to January 10th, I immediately started tracking O because I didn’t know how my cycles were going to turn out and sure enough I ovulated a whole week on January 18-19 earlier then expected and confirmed with OPK. Well here I am at 12 dpo nothing to show for it no lines at least that I can see. Shouldn’t I have something ? My last pregnancy was my first so I am new to it all but shouldn’t I be able to know around the same DPO as last time ? I am so sad if we don’t but I will stay positive in hopes we do next month if we are out 😩