Why are divorces so stressful

It's 1000% what I want just the whole process is stressful. Anybody else divorce a husband who will not agree and possibly not show up? I was told I gotta go to actual court in front of a judge. Is the room full of people? What all happens? If anybody has been in this situation please give me some advice 🙏 we had no kids, property, money or anything at all together. 😶😶Just want this to be over asap!! Please help