Hi lady I need to get this of my chest haha

I have a 10 week old baby girl and we have been together 24/7 those 10 weeks

I have never left her with anyone so never left the house without my baby

I only breastfeed so can't go away for long anyway But I don't want to so that is absolutely ok

Now I keep getting told that I should express and leave the baby with other people because according to them the baby will not learn to be without her mommy if I never leave her with others and second because it is not healthy for me to always be with the baby I have to have some me time

Ok let me tell you this

I don't want me time

I choose to be a mom and I absolutely love it

Yes it is hard sometimes not having any family or friends around to help and a husband that works 6 days a week and comes home late

But I have absolutely no need for me time

I don't want to go out without her to have"fun" because for me fun is taking care of my baby

I'm a stay at home mom and I find being a mom the best thing there is

It is absoluut bullshit that my daughter will get some sort of separation anxiety

I know a lot of kids that spend every minute in daycare and have separation anxiety

She will someday have to be without me off course and that is absolutely ok if I can't take the baby somewhere but really need to be there she will stay with her dad

But she is only 10 weeks

I absolutely don't judge working moms or moms that leave the baby with somebody because they do need a night out or a few hours off that is absolutely fine

But why is it a problem if I don't feel that way

Sorry for the long post it just really annoys me