Is it too soon?

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My baby is 2 months :)
My husband is already talking about he wants to try for another baby😳.
My response is “babe stop playing lol”
But I know he is serious lol
So while I was pregnant and after the baby I was on a blood thinner medicine called Lovenox because of the blood clot. Birth control is a coagulate so I can’t use it. And we do not use condoms, so you can imagine how nervous I am during sex. So far he has been pullin out but I’m scared he slip up one day. Is it too soon? What should I do?

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Personally I would let my body heal a bit more and give it a break. Atleast until 6 months from a vaginal birth or 1 year from a csection. But lots of women do get pregnant right after the next and are perfectly fine lol.

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You're supposed to allow your body to heal for 12-18 months before having another. Itd also be super difficult to be dealing with pregnancy symptoms and a really young baby. I'd wait.

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Your body needs 12 months at least to fully heal. Personally, I would use condoms or get an iud.

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If you aren’t ready then you tell him to wait. We got pregnant by surprise when our first was 5 months and let me tell you it was hard but I was fortunate to have a healthy pregnancy. Your body needs time to rest and to heal. You need time to adjust to having a baby in the house. Just tell him to chill, there is plenty of time.

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Tell him your not ready for another baby yet and need time

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You shpuld ask ypir doctor about copper IUD, it is not hormonal and you dont need to rely on your husband.

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Oh, geez, that’s fast. My son is 10 months old, and I’m 2 months pregnant, and I think that was fast. You truly do have more of a say about this than your husband does because your body is still healing. I’d be pretty forceful that you need more time before having a more serious conversation about TTC in the future.

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Too soon! You can be on non-hormonal OR progesterone only birth control (IUD, implant, mini-pill, etc) with your history of clotting problems. You just need to avoid estrogen containing birth control. Talk to your doctor about your options. 
Getting pregnant too soon is risky for you and your next baby.

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I'm due March 24th and our other daughter turns 1 on March 30th. I think it'll be stressful in the beginning but after we get used to it - it'll probably be good to have so close.

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Idk, men are weird, i think it's a nature thing. They tend to want babies MORE right after we just gave them one. My husband started talking about another one a month after we had our first. I kind of gave in and got pregnant when our son was 5 months, but I lost that pregnancy. Probably because my body just wasn't ready to hold another baby in it, idk, I've stopped thinking about it now. However, I got pregnant again fairly quickly. 
Not looking foward to having 2 under 2 for the next 6 months lol and then having one in his terrible 2s AND most likely a 6 month old teething baby. NOOOPEEEE. But what can I do. 😂

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