I've always been a 'pleaser', I love giving blowjobs and hearing when a guy finished. I was ESPECIALLY the pleaserin the relationship before my current one, he never gave oral or had much stamina. I've gone from that to having a boyfriend who LOVES pleasing and has TONS of stamina... But it's weird for me. I've talked to him about it and he says there isn't anything I can do but enjoy our sex and that's what pleases him. Do any of you have tips for something I could do/surprise him with to feel like I'm pleasing him?