People are so dumb sometimes

So some women have kids young in age and some older in age.well a close acquaintance is 39 and ttc here first and is having trouble some stupid girl told her "well if you would've started young ttc maybe you wouldn't have this problem now that your old". Boy did I want to smash her face in.not every women wants a child in their 20's or 30' maybe they have goals or haven't found Mr Right or whatever reason.I swear people are so dumb. By the way this is coming from a "GIRL" who has three kids by 3 different guys who has never been married .yes I know her business but think before you speak.I felt bad for my friend