Queer TTC & who goes first??

Sarah

Partner 1:

.87 AMH

9 follicles

Fibroid in uterine muscle

Age 29 1/2, good health

Does not track cycle

Partner 2:

2.85 AMH

18+ follicles

PCOS but regular cycle

Age 35 1/2, good health but fat

Tracks cycle and appears to ovulate regularly

Partner 2 was going to try first until Partner 1 got the diminished ovarian reserve diagnosis. Now everything is up in the air! Partner 2 is having all the feelings.

Should 1 go first because of DOR or 2 because of age related egg quality?

RE says 1 can’t do <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> and 2 shouldn’t need it. Recommends monitored and I medicated <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a>. Thank you for your insight.