Alright so, I don't even know how to start this but basically my fiance has been feeling guilt about the possibility of our babies futures due to the unprepared factor that we have had in this pregnancy, we also live states away from each other so although not ideal, we try to talk things out as much as I can now I've been an emotional wreck while pregnant, I'm not justifying myself with that fact.

But I've been reminding him whenever I've felt insecure of this one moment that hurt me, he has done all he can do to ease my worries and until today I finally feel healed from it, I tried sending a heartfelt text to let him know although it was random, I get it needed to be said all of a sudden, I apologize for never letting him live it down that he had hurt me, and for constantly bring this memory up whenever i felt insecure. His reply was reasonable and i understand know its his time to heal from me and i have to give him that time to heal. But I'm afraid he took my intentions the wrong way with my text and again i know it will take time for him just like it did me. So my question is as the women in the relationship knowing you did wrong by making your partner feel guilt and hurt consistently would you do to help them? I know we always talk about men hurting us. But in this case the women is the one who did the hurting.

What can i do? I'm not a good person who can comfort others.