When you lost your virginity, was it/did it feel forced?

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Aww! Girl I hope I’m not annoying you by commenting on all of your polls. I just feel like I can relate so well. 
So no, when I lost mine at 21, it wasn’t forced at all. I’d been with the guy for 9 months already and had actually been really adamant about waiting until marriage.. but about a month before I lost it, I started questioning myself. I felt something change in my head about the idea of sex. I let myself contemplate the idea for an entire month before I even mentioned it to my bf. I felt it go from a glimmer of readiness to full on, I don’t want to wait anymore, 100% ready. 
Then he and I talked about it, and let it happen naturally. It was wonderful. And I knew my gut feeling was right, cause I married that boy, about 2.5 years later. 😊 Been married 3y3mo now. ❤️

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We had known each other for two years before even getting together and we had a mutual attraction to each other for a while as well, so it was a long time coming. No pun intended.

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Maybe a little, by society I guess? I was 19 and I felt like I was supposed to by then. I don't regret it, though, since it had made me very anxious and just jumping into it allowed me to be ready when the right person came along.

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Both my husband and I waited until marriage and there was a little bit of pressure at first but my husband said we didn't have to do it that first night and could wait until I was ready. To be more relaxed when we got to the hotel I took a shower and dressed then he took a shower and got dressed. We met in the bed and chatted while cuddling for a bit beforehand. I felt much more relaxed and not as pressured. I'm very glad my husband didn't expect anything the first night unless I was ready

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Yes and no? I was in the winter session of my senior year of high school. I had fallen in love with my boyfriend and he with me over the summer. He broke up with me though because he was going through a lot mentally. But we ended up seeing each other again. We said we still loved each other and that we should lose our virginities to each other. So it kinda felt forced but also not. It’s definitely something I will always remember!

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No, I lost it at 15 to my boyfriend when I felt completely satisfied with my relationship and ready for it. A bit young but we’re still together two years later and I don’t regret it at all

When you lost your virginity, was it/did it feel forced?

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