I need help. Kinda scared 🤷🏻‍♀️

So last night I was at this guys house and we are talking and stuff right. So we start making out and it gets really hot and heavy and into then he starts eating me out and stuff (btw I’m a virgin) and then he said “do u want me to put it in” and i said yes. And we didn’t use a condom or anything. (I know very stupid) and he didn’t cum but I can’t tell if he pre-came or not. So I went and got spermicide last night and did it. And I used the spermicide again this morning. I’m really scared. Idk if spermicide even works so if y’all can help me. Other than that I mean yay I lost my v-card 😂