Wanting a baby but husband is extremely irresponsible

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Yeah...i don’t really know what to do at this point. Kinda heartbreaking really. I really want to start our family but I can’t help but feel a bunch of anxiety over whether or not he’s ready. He says he is ready and is telling all his friends that we’re going to have a baby but based off of his actions I don’t think it’s smart..this really sucks, I wanna be somebody’s mommy 😔What to do..what to do..